Here are some surveys to begin the exploration of self compassion, attachment styles and love relationships.
Continue to scroll down for articles I have found helpful regarding love relationships, parenting, and emotional health.
Self Reporting Surveys (these surveys are to simply begin the exploration and conversation, and are not meant to determine concrete traits or diagnosis):
Parenting Attachment Questionaire
A.R.E. Relationship Questionaire
Helpful articles regarding love relationships:
“Hold Me Tight” article
http://www.drsuejohnson.com//srv/htdocs/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/psych_today_jan2009.pdf
Research supporting Emotionally Focused Therapy
http://www.coloradoeft.com/for-couples/research/
Close couple bond soothes the threatened brain
http://www.coloradoeft.com//srv/htdocs/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/Soothing-the-Threatened-Brain.pdf
Helpful articles regarding families and parents:
About attachment
http://tvoparents.tvo.org/article/what-attachment-and-why-it-important
For pre-teen and teen years:
http://www.nonviolentcommunication.com/freeresources/article_archive/teen_communication.htm
For young children
http://www.nonviolentcommunication.com/freeresources/article_archive/no_fault_zone.htm
Helpful articles regarding emotional health:
To relieve anxiety
http://psychcentral.com/lib/9-ways-to-reduce-anxiety-right-here-right-now/00017762
To ease depression
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/depression/dealing-with-depression.htm
For support in grief
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/grief-loss/coping-with-grief-and-loss.htm
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/emotions/someone_died.html
Coping with trauma